One for the Money, Two to Tango

by Jodie Franklin 08/11/2019

Budgeting is not always an easy chore to keep up with but making sure you are aware of where your money goes, and how much you need to cover your monthly expenses, is something you need to be on top of. If you are in a relationship and share the finances, then budgeting gets that much more challenging. Open and continuous communication can help you in the budgeting process, but what really helps is when a couple has shared financial goals and a similar view of the value of money. 

Past to Present Money Matters

The attitude about money that you grew up around shapes how you view and act with your money. Whether there was a lack of resources, or there was always more than enough to go around, this past experience makes up your view of money. You may have been taught that to be of worth, you need to be making a certain amount of money. Or maybe you were told that if you wanted something you needed to go out and earn money to get what you wanted. Or you could have watched others around you waste their money and then suffer later for lack of savings. Whatever the circumstances that led to your current thinking, you can change a poor attitude about money or build on a good sense of financial responsibility. The key is to understand that money in and of itself is just a tool. 

Economics 101

Money as a tool means you need the knowledge of how this tool works and then some idea of how you want to use it. The bigger picture of how money works in the world is what macroeconomics explains but what it comes to is this; supply and demand. For example, when you go grocery shopping, you take what you want from the store, and as you leave, you give them money, something both parties agree has value. 

Master the Right Tools 

If you are part of a couple, find a way to talk through each person’s ideas and feelings about money. Keep in mind money is a tool and you are in charge of telling it where to go and what to do. Master the tools for money management and build your future together. 

Pick a time this week to write down what you think about money and where your money philosophy comes from.

About the Author
Author

Jodie Franklin

I love helping people find their dream home or sell their house in order to achieve their next goals. I have been working hard for my clients for over 18 years throughout southeast Michigan. I have experienced every kind of transaction there is. 

Helping my community and being involved is extremely important to me. I am Past President of the Michigan Ability Partners board, which helps Veterans and people with disabilities reach independent, self-supported, and satisfying lives. I have also been a member of the City of Milan Tax Review Board and Zoning Board, and involved in Milan Main Street. I have been a major sponsor of events for Michigan Ability Partners, Aid in Milan, Milan Main Street, and many more organizations that work to make our communities better. 

I was 2018 President of the Ann Arbor Area Board of Realtors, Realtor of the year in 2016 for AAABOR and nominee for Michigan Realtor of the Year. I serve on many committees with the local board, state board and was a member of the Housing Opportunity Committee for the National Association of Realtors (2018-19). I am currently serving my second term as a Michigan Realtors Board of Directors. 

I have liked in Milan for over 20 years and enjoy living here with my husband Cliff, son Evan, and dog Rosie.